🌟 10,000+ Books Sold — What Real Readers Are Saying
We asked eight Reformli readers to answer a few honest questions about their experience. Here’s what they had to say.
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We asked eight Reformli readers to answer a few honest questions about their experience. Here’s what they had to say.
Before the book:
Luis had checked every box — job, routine, responsibilities — but something still felt missing. Deep down, he couldn’t shake the feeling that life was happening around him, not with him.
Q: What made you realize something needed to change?
Luis: “I just kept asking, is this it? I had a routine, a decent job, but no sense of meaning behind it.”
Q: What stood out to you while reading the book?
Luis: “It didn’t try to sell me a ‘life plan.’ It helped me slow down and explore what actually mattered to me, without pressure to figure it all out at once.”
Q: Was there a part that shifted your thinking?
Luis: “Yeah — it framed purpose as something you build, not something you wait to find. That opened everything up for me.”
Q: How are things different for you now?
Luis: “I’m trying new things. Taking small steps instead of waiting for some big breakthrough. I feel more grounded.”
Q: What would you say to someone who feels lost?
Luis: “You’re not broken — you’re just between chapters. That’s what I learned.”
Before the book:
Henry’s smile fooled most people — but inside, he felt distant and numb. He didn’t know when things had shifted, only that the joy he used to feel had quietly faded.
Q: How were you feeling before all this?
Henry: “Disconnected. I’d smile around people but feel numb when I was alone. I didn’t know how to fix it.”
Q: What did the book help you notice?
Henry: “That I was waiting to feel better before doing things that might help — when really, it’s the other way around.”
Q: Was there a section that really stuck with you?
Henry: “The part about small moments of joy. It reminded me that peace doesn’t always come from big changes — sometimes it’s just noticing what’s already here.”
Q: Have you made any changes since reading it?
Henry: “I’ve started doing simple things again — walking without my phone, writing down one good thing a day. It helps.”
Q: What does happiness mean to you now?
Henry: “Less pressure. More presence. I don’t feel ‘fixed,’ but I feel lighter.”
Before the book:
Karen’s mind never turned off. Every decision became a spiral, every silence a replay loop. She was tired — not physically, but mentally — from trying to think her way into peace.
Q: What was going through your mind before reading the book?
Karen: “Everything felt like a loop. I’d replay conversations, decisions, even small things — and I couldn’t turn it off.”
Q: Did the book help you break that cycle?
Karen: “Yes. Not by telling me to ‘just stop’ — but by explaining why I was stuck in it in the first place. That made it feel manageable.”
Q: Was there a moment that really shifted something for you?
Karen: “There was a section about mental clutter. It helped me see how much time I was spending thinking instead of living.”
Q: What’s changed for you since then?
Karen: “I’ve started setting limits — like no rethinking decisions I already made. It’s helped create some space in my head.”
Q: How do you feel when your mind is quieter?
Karen: “Lighter. Like there’s finally room to enjoy things instead of always analyzing them.”
Before the book:
After a few painful relationships, Layla wasn’t sure how to trust — herself or anyone else. Love felt like a performance, not a place she could rest in. Still, she hadn’t given up on it.
Q: What was love like for you before this?
Layla: “It always felt like I had to perform or prove something. I wasn’t sure how to be myself and still feel chosen.”
Q: Did anything in the book challenge you?
Layla: “The part about emotional safety hit me. I realized I’d been picking people who didn’t make space for me to feel safe, and calling it love.”
Q: How did you feel while reading?
Layla: “I felt understood. I didn’t feel judged. It helped me slow down and actually think about what I want in a relationship.”
Q: Has anything changed in your approach?
Layla: “I’ve stopped chasing people who don’t give back. That one shift has already brought so much peace.”
Q: What do you want going forward?
Layla: “Something real. And I finally believe that’s not too much to ask.”
Backstory:
Chris knew he had more to offer — but somehow, he always felt a step behind financially. He was ready to shift gears, but needed a new way of thinking about money and self-worth.
Q: What made you want to change your financial situation?
Chris: “I was tired of feeling like I was always catching up. I knew I was capable of more — I just didn’t know where to start.”
Q: How did the book help you shift your thinking?
Chris: “It showed me that earning more isn’t just about working harder — it’s about thinking differently. I’d never looked at my skills that way before.”
Q: Was there a part that really pushed you forward?
Chris: “There was a section on value — how to stop underestimating what you bring to the table. That helped me rethink my entire approach to money.”
Q: What’s one thing you've done differently since reading it?
Chris: “I mapped out a side project I’ve been putting off for years — with actual steps and timelines. It’s the first time it’s felt doable, not just like a wish.”
Q: How do you feel about money now?
Chris: “More focused. I’m not just hoping things improve — I’m actively creating better options for myself.”
Before the book:
Daniel was great at starting things — not so great at sticking with them. Every time he fell off, he blamed himself, and each attempt felt heavier than the last.
Q: What’s been the hardest part about building better habits?
Daniel: “Consistency. I’d always start strong, then fall off after a few days. It felt like I was either all-in or nothing.”
Q: Did the book help you approach it differently?
Daniel: “Yeah — it focused more on why habits fall apart, not just how to build them. That gave me something to work with, not just another checklist.”
Q: Was there a specific concept that helped it click?
Daniel: “The idea of friction — how even small things can stop you if they’re annoying or unclear. That explained a lot.”
Q: What’s working for you now?
Daniel: “I started making changes that feel easy to repeat — not just impressive. And I stop judging myself when I miss a day.”
Q: How do you feel about your routines now?
Daniel: “Calmer. It’s not perfect, but it’s mine — and it’s finally starting to stick.”
Q: What made you realize confidence was something you needed to work on?
Gemma: “I’d stay quiet even when I had something to say. I always assumed other people knew more or had it together.”
Q: Did the book help you see things differently?
Gemma: “Yeah — it helped me see how much of confidence is built, not given. I stopped waiting to ‘feel ready’ before showing up.”
Q: Was there a moment in the book that stayed with you?
Gemma: “There was a part about internal proof — using small wins to build trust in yourself. That flipped something for me.”
Q: Have you done anything differently since then?
Gemma: “I’ve started speaking up more — even if I’m nervous. And when I do, I try to notice what went well, not just what I could’ve done better.”
Q: How do you view yourself now?
Gemma: “Still growing, but more solid. I don’t shrink myself as much — and that feels good.”
Q: What held you back from starting sooner?
Mark: “I thought I needed some perfect idea or a ton of money to begin. I didn’t realise how much that mindset was stalling me.”
Q: How did the book shift your perspective?
Mark: “It broke the process down — step by step. I stopped obsessing over having it all figured out and focused on what I could act on right now.”
Q: Was there a moment that helped you take that first real step?
Mark: “There was a section about using what you already know — turning skills into something useful. That made it feel possible, not distant.”
Q: What have you done since reading it?
Mark: “I outlined a simple service and pitched it to someone in my network. That one yes gave me more momentum than months of planning ever did.”
Q: How do you feel now about running your own thing?
Mark: “Energized. It’s still early, but I’ve stopped waiting for permission. That part’s over.”
From finding purpose to building confidence, from starting a business to breaking free from overthinking — these stories show what can happen when someone gets the chance to read something that genuinely reflects their life.
Each of these readers started with just a few chapters — and chose to keep going. For them, continuing with the full book wasn’t just about reading more; it was about continuing a conversation that felt personal and real.
If any of their stories resonated with you, the rest of your book is waiting.
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